Women Being Allowed to be Women

Now, before you get the wrong idea, I think I should be honest: I respect feminists, their point of view and lifestyle. But there's an extreme side to everything, right? It usually doesn't end up pretty. It's okay to want independence as a woman. I have no problem with women who prefer going without make up and choosing a career in the field of law, medics or politics over having children. To each their own.

However, political preferences (including conservative and liberal parties) are just as prone to being an invader of personal space as religion is. Not to say all religious or politically involved people try to impose their beliefs on people, just the people that do can come across as overbearing.

 My own grandmother, quite the opinionated woman she is, told me a few years back, that once I am out in the world as a woman I must only trust myself in having a stable home, family, and provided finances. That I must go out and get that college degree, and anyone that relies on someone else to take care of them is a fool. A bit of an extremist example, yes we have all heard worse, but I think you get the point.

Is it not steering away from feminism to force women into yet another gender role? You'd think a true feminist would want women to make their own choices, whether that be the role of a housewife or a career woman. What if a woman doesn't want to be a traditional feminist, but wants to feel feminine, in her own way? By her decision? This isn't the 1950's anymore. Women are allowed many other options than just being confined to the house caring for children, cleaning, and having dinner on the table whenever her husband gets home from work. Since us women have the option now to provide for our families or stay at home, shouldn't it be respected that some of us make a choice; career or not?

Only the women who crave to give up control to a masculine force can comprehend what it's like to want to be...somewhat of a girl again. Some women feel feminine putting on a business suit and others enjoy being damsels in distress. It certainly didn't harm women in the past, other than being less protected by domestic abuse laws. 

There's nothing more mentally, spiritually, emotionally, and sexually satisfying to this type of woman than a power exchange. When I know I'm serving my man properly, I feel like my soul has been completed. When I feel soft, disciplined, and youthful, "helpless" sounds more like "blessing" to my ears.

Being taken in a man's hand is giving in full trust, intimate abilities, and partial responsibility as an adult. With the right man being Head of Household, there are no cons, simply love and life's other challenges to character strengthening. 

If someone were to think I was "oppressing" myself by doing housework and obeying my husband, they should realize that nothing makes me happier. Being oppressed to someone often means joy to another. If men were once thought to "wear the pants" in marriage, I think I'll wear my skirt proudly.

He Makes Her Wear Diapers???

I was surfing experience project today and looking through different groups of Domestic Discipline. There were so many stories to read and so many that wanted to share. I even joined a few myself.

Then I came across a group called "I Make My Wife Wear Diapers." It can be found here if you want to see what I'm talking about: http://www.experienceproject.com/groups/Make-My-Wife-Wear-Diapers/203745

 There were about four stories posted, some more elaborate than others. The one that caught my attention was this young, 19 year old wife who was diapered and babied for a month by her Husband/"Daddy." I have never heard of anything like this used in Domestic Discipline marriage. I'm so stumped and still trying to figure out my own opinion on this.

As you might have read on my previous post: http://lovingddguide.blogspot.com/2012_06_26_archive.html

I am a believer in alternative punishment methods, particularly with verbal and juvenile misbehavior, but perhaps diaper discipline is a little too juvenile?

I'm not the one to judge on what punishments and rules are established by individual Head of Households, but this is just so shocking to me. Of course, I could be wrong, maybe these are simply fictional stories posted by fantasizing fetishists. Or, maybe not.

Husbands, wives, fiances, lovers who practice Domestic Discipline: have you ever used diaper discipline? How embarrassing was it for the wives receiving it? Was it more or less effective than spanking and corner time? Did you still administer spankings and corner time during the diaper punishment? How long did the punishment last?

I know, I ask a lot of questions but this really struck my curiosity. If you have experience or knowledge of this, please, do comment.

I feel sort of stuck on what to think of this. Part of me says it's too juvenile, the other part is telling me...maybe being put in diapers really could set a valid point for the wife. "Act like a baby, be treated like one." Right?

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These Books Will Get You Hooked!

I can't forget to give all of you DD couples and fans a taste of what's in store for your type of literature. Thinking the other day, of what to post on my blog, I struck an idea. Why not show you some of my favorite reads? I found most of these enticing novellas on Google Books, read a little of the previews they offered, and installed the full versions on my Kindle Fire. I'll tell you, I did not regret reading a single one of them.

To start off, let me show you a series of short stories written by Kiki Faran:

Yes, this is Once Upon A Knee, Volume Two, showing several different scenarios of sassy wives being shown who is boss. This is a sequel to an equally alluring Volume One. You can find detailed previews on Google Books for both volumes.

This plot is a little more advanced, so I think I'll give you a summary from goodreads.com:

Jared belongs to the Rod and Cane Society, a secret organization of men who spank their wives to maintain domestic discipline. When Melania ignores a “request” from her husband and attempts to hide her disobedience, Jared spanks her.

While Jared believes the unpleasantness has been settled, for Melania it only has begun. Although she consented to the spanking, her fairytale notion of marriage has been shattered and she makes plans to leave Jared as soon as her parents return from vacation.

While she waits, Melania begins to see more positive aspects of domestic discipline. But just as she decides her love for Jared is paramount and she might be able to accept a domestic discipline marriage, Jared discovers she’d planned to leave him and once again her marriage is in jeopardy.


Hmm...spicy with just the right amount of conflict, right? I'm tempted to go to the local bookstore already!

Now, this one right here is a little more sweet. It starts off with the traditional fantasy of this young, pretty author, pretty and lonely at that, wanting to find Mr. Right. It doesn't take long for her wishes to find her way into her life when she starts conversing with an old friend at the bar. Not only does she discover that he was more of an alpha than she might have begun to know, but he wants to be her Alpha, this all being under his terms, of course...

If you have a drive for the Western life, you're going to love this one. Similar to Faran's Once Upon a Knee, this delicious collection offers little tidbits of what it's like to be a lady taken in hand, but this time by, you guessed it: a handsome cowboy. The cowboys in these stories aren't anywhere near ordinary, and they really know how to lay down the law.


So, what do you think? I think I'm going to curl up with my Kindle Fire and read a good book. As for all of you, I suggest trying out some previews on Google Books and stopping by Barnes and Noble when you get the chance!